When I heard
that the 1983 film, “A Christmas Story” was adapted
into a musical, I thought that it would be a great way to kick off the holiday season with my son. It’s a tradition for us every year to watch the movie that takes place on Cleveland Street in Indiana in the l940’s. We laugh over and over again at Ralphie’s quest to get a Red Ryder, carbine action, two-hundred shot BB gun for
Christmas! The holiday movie, "A Christmas Story” is so
appealing to the masses and we never get tired of watching it over and over
again because
it fuels our memories of our own holiday stories. We all can remember
a time when we worried that all the “bad stuff" done that year would keep Santa from giving
us that one special, must have, childhood toy. My coveted toy was a Barbie convertible.
A way to survive the empty nest and a "cracked "relationship with a fun daily challenge of new experiences, reflections, sources, and some biblical guidance. I hope this blog which offers a fun journey to survive by trying something new, either vicariously or by doing, will result in a survival tool kit to replace the past familiar doing, giving, and/or incorporating the interest of your child or your long gone love interest, with some new self interest(s).
Saturday, November 26, 2016
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
Day 177 Joe Beretta Foundation-Story of Family-Giving Thanks
I have seen many of my friends use an unexpected adverse experience to catapult them into some type of positive action (see Day 60- Skully's Wish, Day 28-Support A Friend, Alzheimer's, Day 57-Ovarian Cancer). We participate in various causes because we are affected personally, because of friendship, or because the story behind the action makes us want to help. It’s the story behind my childhood best friend’s loss of her husband to heart failure and her family’s amazing dream to make things better for others in similar situations, that fuels my desire to help and share the cause of the Joe Beretta Foundation. (see TheJoeBerettaFoundation.com)
Thursday, November 17, 2016
Day 176 Try Running/Never Thought I Would
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The days are getting shorter and it’s a race to get some activity
in before the sun sets. Jogging gives you a work out in a short period of
time. I have to admit that I hate to run
and I would do anything to avoid any
type of running. I would joke that I would be the first one in a group to be eaten by a bear
because I am so slow.
I never thought that I would even attempt to run at my age, especially because I need to save my
knees for skiing. However, I was inspired by my college friend who finished the
Boston half marathon. She also hated to run and her efforts fueled a competitive nerve that I did not think I even
had. I thought that if my friend can master a marathon than I can at least try to run a 5k. Conquering a weakness is a
quality of a being self- actualized or reaching
your personal best, so I started to jog.
Monday, November 14, 2016
Day 175 Red Hot Chili Pipers- A Bagpipe concert?
This empty nest period has been filled with an explosion of
new music experiences ranging from Jazz
(Day 15), banjos (Day 54), alternative Rock (Day 137), to
Rap (Day 170 ). However, I did not
expect my new music exposure to include
a bagpipe concert! I must admit that I never imagined listening
to bagpipes without attending a St. Patty’s Day celebration,
some type of memorial, or watching clog dancing, until I heard The Red Hot Chili Pipers, (not peppers but pipers).
Sunday, November 6, 2016
Day 174-Salome, Pittsburgh Opera-regretful lust
When I ask most of my friends to go to the opera I often get
a polite, “no thank you. ” I would like to point out that opera is all about the overall experience and
this blog is about the overall experience of trying new things especially in the midst of a life change (see Day 143). I say
go for the hyped up experience of the opera with the symphony,
singing, dancing, extravagant sets, costumes, and drama.
You really don’t have to follow every detail
of the story to understand what the show is trying to convey. Pittsburgh Opera's Salome, is all about uncontrolled lust and
desire fueling one to behave in an unusual or in a bizarre manner. We all have performed regretful acts birthed from something that we
think that we need or must have!
Monday, October 31, 2016
The New 2017 Scarehouse and Day 173 Scarehouse-Happy Halloween
During Halloween weekend, I experienced the adrenaline thrill of fear again at the ScareHouse. As a girl who sleeps with the lights on after watching a scary movie, I had to invite someone for a sleepover after I experience these 3 ScareHouse haunts!
There is a new Sunset Lodge which is a old hotel that has been taken over by serial killers. The hotel was just like a horror film movie set. The ScareHouse room details continue to amaze me and the 70 plus actors always seem to stay in character.
There was a new 3-D circus themed haunt with some really scary looking clowns. This was my favorite group of rooms. I laughed at myself as I jumped, when turning back from looking at my friends behind me, I came face to face with a clown with a scary huge grin. In 3-D it protruded out as if to bite me!
The Infernal Haunt with more demons and scary dolls always seems to produce that feeling of "get me out of here"! There is something about those big eyed dolls that just creeps me out.
I am not sure why we enjoy the thrill of a little fright but ScarehHouse did it again! I am still not ready for the basement experience.
Happy Halloween.
There is a new Sunset Lodge which is a old hotel that has been taken over by serial killers. The hotel was just like a horror film movie set. The ScareHouse room details continue to amaze me and the 70 plus actors always seem to stay in character.
There was a new 3-D circus themed haunt with some really scary looking clowns. This was my favorite group of rooms. I laughed at myself as I jumped, when turning back from looking at my friends behind me, I came face to face with a clown with a scary huge grin. In 3-D it protruded out as if to bite me!
The Infernal Haunt with more demons and scary dolls always seems to produce that feeling of "get me out of here"! There is something about those big eyed dolls that just creeps me out.
I am not sure why we enjoy the thrill of a little fright but ScarehHouse did it again! I am still not ready for the basement experience.
Happy Halloween.
Day 173 Scarehouse-Happy Halloween
I am a girl who sleeps
with the lights on after watching a
scary movie and who turns her head during horror movie TV clips. I must be getting brave in this empty nest period because this was my third
annual Scarehouse visit. I wondered if this place would still give me that
scare thrill. In case it did, I had friends join me for support this time.
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| He moved! Foggy |
Reflection
I wonder why we enjoy
that heart flutter adrenaline spark when something unexpectedly jumps at us or
when the presumed mannequin is real and moves toward you. I guess there is a dopamine
rush that keeps us coming back for more.
Sunday, October 23, 2016
Day 172 Colbie Caillat-Carnegie Music Hall in Homestead/ Personal touch/ Malibu

I first saw Colbie Caillat on the Today Show over 10 years ago. She was playing her first solo hit single, “Bubbly.” I loved her pop/jazz/soft sound and I ran out and got her first CD, CoCo . I still love every song on that CD. I was surprised to see that she was coming to a small venue, the Carnegie Music Hall in Homestead. Even on a week night, I was off to rediscover her and check out this music venue. What I discovered was great music delivered with a personal touch.
Thursday, October 20, 2016
Day 171 PNC Broadway in Pittsburgh/Finding Neverland-imagination
My Blog inspiration book, “Everything I Need to Know I Learned From a Little Golden Book,” reminds us to, “use our imagination.” That
is just what playwright, JW Barrie, did
when he embarked on his journey to create
the story, Peter Pan. The PNC Broadway
in Pittsburgh musical, Finding Neverland, is about this journey. This is not just a play for
children, but is really a play about tapping into something inside each of us that inspires us to imagine, dream, and be childlike.
Sunday, October 16, 2016
Day 170 Rapper Kuf Knots-Positive Light
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| Kuf Knots at the Pittsburgh Winey with Multu |
Friday, October 14, 2016
Day 169 Pittsburgh Winery/romantic, interesting music and wine-Mutlu
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| Pittsburgh Winery stage |
My blog inspiration book, Everything I Need to Know I Learned From A Little Golden Book, reminds us to, “be adventurous”. I felt adventurous when I tried, the Pittsburgh Winery, which is an urban winery located Pittsburgh's
strip district. Urban wineries do not
grow grapes but import them. Thus they have a variety
of grapes to make the wine. The
Pittsburgh Winery offers an opportunity to sample good wine, and hear national artists in an intimate setting.
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Day 168 Pittsburgh Broadway, Kinky Boots – Change your world and Remembering my Friend
The Pittsburgh Broadway series is bringing some great musicals to town. Kinky Boots, which is based
on a true story, had a unique plot-Charlie revitalizes
his late father’s bankrupt shoe factory by finding a niche making sexy boots
for men who dress as women. Kinky boots was about confidently reinventing something which is in line with my blog inspiration, Maslow, the father of self actualization , or being your personal best. This show was also about acceptance and looking beyond appearances into one's heart. As stressed in this play, by doing this you can "change
your world. "
Maybe it’s my current
perspective (see Day 167) but every song in this show seemed to be
screaming at me: Take What You Got, Sex is in the Heel , History of Wrong Guys, and of course, What a Woman Wants . I have to admit that my eyes welled with tears during,
Not My Father's Son, and Raise You Up/Just Be. I remembered my best friend, Paul,
who left this world much too soon. He dared to be himself when it was so difficult in the 80's. He sure sparkled just like those Kinky Boots!
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