Empty Nest -Whimsical Journey to Survive and Self Actualize
A way to survive the empty nest and a "cracked "relationship with a fun daily challenge of new experiences, reflections, sources, and some biblical guidance. I hope this blog which offers a fun journey to survive by trying something new, either vicariously or by doing, will result in a survival tool kit to replace the past familiar doing, giving, and/or incorporating the interest of your child or your long gone love interest, with some new self interest(s).
Sunday, September 13, 2026
Day 433 The Lion King, Broadway in Pittsburgh- A Bold Musical Journey into the African Savanna
Friday, September 11, 2026
Day 432 Never Forget 911 -Shanksvill PA Flight 93 -America United
Even though 25 years have passed, I remember EXACTLY what I was doing on September 11, 2001, when the hijacked planes crashed into the World Trade Center. During this horrific event, “time stood still,” and we were glued to the television watching repetitive replays of the events. Yet this monstrous day somehow birthed a feeling of unity in this country. Stores were sold out of American flags. The American flag waved everywhere, on cars, homes, lawns and television. Americans had a united spirit to help, pray and care for one another.
During this time of polarized everything, especially elections, visiting the memorial is a powerful reminder to pause, put aside our differences and unite as we honor those who left this world on September 11, 2001.
Friday, January 2, 2026
Day 431- Clue Live on Stage- Pittsburgh Broadway Series-Who Dun It?
I think my love of true crime television started in my childhood, while playing the game Clue. The winner of the board game becomes the ultimate detective by identifying the “murder, weapon and in what room.” Clue Live on Stage has the zany antics of our favorite characters, Professor Plum, Colonel Mustard, Ms. Scarlett, the butler, cook, and others. It’s a comedic ride as bodies drop and the audience joins the quest for “Who dun it?”
| Clue Live on Stage has the zany antics of our favorite characters |
Reflection
The cast of characters all receive identical mysterious
invitations to Mr. Boddy’s Manor. He is blackmailing
each of them for prior acts of bad behavior- the motive. The grandiose mansion looks like something straight out of
Disney’s “Haunted Mansion Ride.” As each
invitee enters, there is a crash of lightning, reminding me of an epic
cartoon-like emphasis.
The players of this murder mystery entertain with vivid
personalities: the Colonel is as dumb as nails; Mr. Green is the bumbling
idiot; the Professor is the defunked intellectual; Ms. White is the deadpan pessimist; Ms. Peacock is eccentric; Ms. Scarlett
is the sultry tease, and the cook is just plain strange.
This comedy combusts with wit and action. Doors crash, lights flicker, parties appear and disappear. During all the commotion caused by the numerous dead victims, someone asks, “Whose idea was this meeting anyway?” The butler replies, “Parker Brothers” (ta da).
A highlight is the slow-motion replay scenarios of each
character as the killer. Adam Brett, the butler Wadsworth, has a noteworthy
physical and speedy dialogue near the conclusion which produced a burst of
applause.
Clue, the show, is funny without being too punchy or silly.
It will bring back the joys of playing the beloved game for some of us and surely
make you a fan of the “who dun it?”
(For tickets to Clue and more on the PNC Pittsburgh Broadway series,
go to Trustarts.org. Next up is Wicked.)
Other Sources
Tuesday, June 3, 2025
Day 430-Cheers to Madame Clicquot, CLO’s New Historical Musical, The Queen of the Bubbly
Pittsburgh audiences are the first to experience this new musical about a visionary woman in the 1800s who transformed a French winery into one that to this day is at the pinnacle of the champagne industry. Madame Clicquot is based on the true story of Barbe-Nicole Clicquot. She overcame the obstacles of the French Revolution, Napoleon’s rule, and the limitations imposed on women to become a successful entrepreneur of the bubbly.
This world premiere, stacked with Broadway talent, uses state-of-the-art graphics and elaborate period costumes. The score reminds me of the
classic “Rodgers and Hammerstein” musical era.
Cheers to what this lady
accomplished and to CLO’s new musical production.
Monday, May 12, 2025
Day 429 Rise on Point, Twirl, or Jump Down the Yellow Brick Road with The Pittsburgh Ballet Theatre (PBT)- The Wizard of Oz
The iconic 1939 Movie, The Wizard of Oz, was a staple in my son’s and my childhood. The story from the classic 1900 novel is a timeless tale that has morphed into many versions. Pittsburgh Ballet’s premiere of Septime Webre’s large-scale ballet takes you down the Yellow Brick Road on point, with twirls, jumps, and much more. The beauty of the dance, mixed with special effects, an extravagant set design, and even some puppets, transports you to the wonderful world of OZ.
Wednesday, April 16, 2025
Day 428- PNC Broadway in Pittsburgh, Tap Dancing Sizzles in Some Like it Hot
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The musical, Some Like it Hot is based on the 1959 movie voted by film critics as the best comedy of all time. During Prohibition in Chicago, two musicians, Joe and Jerry, witness a mob hit. They go undercover, disguised as women, and join an all-girl band to flee the pursuit of gangsters. Mix in song, love interests, a little self-discovery, and the razzle-dazzle of tap dancing, and you've got one hot musical.
Wednesday, March 26, 2025
Day 427 -Take a Soak at Berkeley Springs, West Virginia
Just about two and a half hours from Pittsburgh, you will
find a small West Virginia town that was established around the flow of mineral
water in 1776, Berkeley Springs. These springs were frequented by Native Americans
and even George Washington. The Berkeley Springs State Park offers visitors the
opportunity to take a soak at the Spa or The Old Roman Bathhouse and experience
the healing and relaxing properties of this mineral-rich water.
Monday, March 3, 2025
Day 425- Lullaby Project Celebration Concert, A Pittsburgh Cultural Trust Community Engagement Program-Mother's Songs of Love Spread Joy
The Lullaby Project is one of the Pittsburgh Cultural Trust Community Engagement Programs. This is the second cohort where the Trust teamed up
with the Carnegie Hall’s Weill Music Institute matching new and expecting
mothers and caregivers with songwriters and musicians to create very personal
Lullabies for their child. On March 1, 2025 the Trust's second cohort Lullaby Project Celebration took place. The performances of these original songs spread joy that reminds us that no matter what our differences, the
love between a family/mother and child is universal.
Brooke Horejsi, Chief Programming and Engagement Officer for the Pittsburgh Cultural Trust, put it so well, “This is a love celebration from the
heart.” The concert consists of seven
participant poems that were transformed into soft, jazzy, even pop-like tunes. The
musical quality was impressive but the messages of affection, hope and aspirations
for these new lives showered the room with positivism.
Tuesday, February 11, 2025
Day 424- Attack Theatre-Sessions- Combustion of Story, Song and Dance with alt-pop artist Rachel Sage and Cellist Dave Eggar
Founded in 1994, Attack Theatre is a modern dance company
that fuses live music and other art forms in their performances. They are a
company with a mission to “remain curious” for new ideas. That is just what they are doing with the "24-25 Season of Fire.” In Sessions, alt-pop artist Rachael Sage,
and cellist Dave Eggar combust with the dance company for an evening of storytelling,
song, music and movement.
Friday, January 31, 2025
Day 423-Life of Pi, A Theatrical Experience-Finding “a Light” to Defeat Fear
Life of Pi is a stage production based on Yann Martel’s best-selling novel. The book was also adapted into a movie. A 16-year old boy’s journey to survive a cargo shipwreck sharing a lifeboat with a hyena, a zebra, an orangutan, and a 450-pound Royal Bengal tiger is brought to life with the use of extraordinary puppets and special effects. Pi, an explorer of spirituality, found his own “light” to defeat fear. He holds on for 227 days adrift in the ocean before being rescued.
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Day 422- CLO Who’s Holiday? It’s Grown-up Cindy Lou’s, Sharing it with You
The Grinch tried to steal the Who’s Christmas with a scowl and grimness. Remember, even after waking little Cindy Lou he shoved the tree up the chimney. All Grown up now, Cindy enjoys cocktails, a little cursing, jokes and some wacky smokes. We are her party guests as she tries her best to find a little cheer after a difficult year.









